It’s Halloween, and I haven’t talked about any scary books yet. Granted, that’s because I’ve been posting every day on Weird Wyrlds, but still. Let’s spread the fun around over here.
Let’s talk about the scariest book I read this year. Let’s talk about Sisters in Hate.
Published in July of 2020 and written by Seyward Darby, Sisters in Hate is the story of how three women fell hard into the pipeline of White Nationalism. Only one came back out.
On the outside, the women have little in common. One is a mortician and former bodybuilder. One is a stay-at-home mom turned social media influencer. One is a radio host. What they share, in my opinion, is a fear of the world changing.
While telling their stories, Darby goes into the history of American White Nationalism and German White Nationalism. Surprisingly, there are, in fact, parallels.
Some of these stories I’ve heard before. This is a topic that I’ve been darkly fascinated with for a long time. But I still learned about new hate groups and horrific history while reading this book.
I knew that Germany had a huge propaganda campaign to encourage women to have as many babies as possible during the Nazi years. I knew the unfortunate story of Lynx and Lamb, and how their mother basically groomed them to be bait for young white men. I knew about the toxic blog, Return of Kings.
I didn’t know about Red Ice. I kind of wish I still didn’t. I didn’t know that there was a large anti-war campaign in America during WWII, led by mothers, who didn’t want their white sons dying for Jewish people.
This is actually the first thing I want to highlight about this book. It is astoundingly well researched and just packed with information. Even someone like me, who knows way too much about history and modern White Nationalism, learned a ton.
They weren’t happy things, but they were new.
That brings me to the second thing I loved about this book. Darby is unflinching in her journey into a very dark part of our society. She doesn’t actively attack these women, simply lays out the facts and allows us to make our own conclusions. This is smart. Not only would attacking these women not do any good, but it’s in fact likely what two of them want.
I think it’s important to remember that these women are just people. They have their own fears, hopes, and dreams. This doesn’t mean that their actions are justifiable or that the people they hurt don’t matter. But we’re not going to get through to anyone if we just keep screaming at them for being Nazis and racists. That just makes people cling to their Nazi and racist communities.
Honestly, this was the biggest takeaway from this book.
People who fall into these Alt Right groups often do so because they lack a sense of community. And these hate groups give them that. They give them identity and a sense of family. They give them a group of people who like what they like and fear what they fear. There are often cult tactics in play, like love bombing. People sometimes move to a new state to be closer to people they thought were friends, and now feel trapped. Maybe we’ll get farther with compassion for these people. And I know that’s very hard. It’s hard to feel compassion for people who are causing pain. But hurt people hurt people. And they don’t start hurting people because we hurt them more.
In the end, though, the best thing about Sisters in Hate is the overall message of hope.
There is hope for people lost in the Alt Right movement. There’s hope for communities suffering at their hands.
The first woman in the book is recovering from the Alt Right. She’s finding peace and community. She’s calling people she once would have called slurs sister. I almost cried at the end; it was so beautiful.
You should read Sisters In Hate. The best way to fight against hate and ignorance is with education and love. And that’s exactly what you’ll find in this book. Read it, share it, leave copies around town. But first, read it.
My book, Station 86 Volume One, is available now on Amazon! It’s got two dark sci-fi stories about murder and mayhem on the station of First Contact.





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